Sistem pembelajaran di setiap negara sangat berbeza dan setiap negara mempraktiskan cara pembelajaran dan pengajaran yang berbeza bagi menyesuaikan dengan masyarakat dan pelajar di negara tersebut. Sewaktu di sekolah rendah dahulu cara pembelajaran yang kita lalui ada yang mungkin berbeza selepas kita memasuki sekolah menengah tetapi ada kalanya tidak terlalu ketara perbezaannya.
Sekolah rendah merupakan waktu girang yang pernah kita alami kerana pada waktu itulah kita belajar mengenal rakan-rakan dan pada fasa tersebut juga merupakan saat di mana kita memulakan langkah mengenal pasti minat terhadap sesuatu yang diajarkan oleh guru-guru kita.
Kemudian, kita melangkah ke sekolah menengah di mana ia merupakan fasa kedua di dalam alam pembelajaran kita di mana kita mula mengorak langkah yang lebih luas untuk memenuhi aspek pengetahuan kita dan mula menyesuaikan diri dan mula mencari sesuatu rentak yang sehati dan sejiwa dengan diri kita. Di sini juga kita mula belajar untuk membuka minda dengan lebih luas dan mula belajar menerima sesuatu perkara yang baru dan berguna sebagai persiapan awal dalam mengorak langkah dan rentak di fasa seterusnya.
Setelah kita menguji kemampuan kita di fasa kedua, kita akan menaiki fasa ketiga di mana kita mula mendapat rentak yang diingini dan yang bisa dijadikan sebahagian daripada hidup dan matlamat dalam diri kita. Kita mula memilih jalan yang dapat membawa kita untuk menggapai impian kita agar kita bisa memenuhi keperluan ataupun kehendak hidup kita yang telah kita rancang semenjak di fasa kedua.
Sewaktu di fasa ketiga inilah kita mula berfikir secara lebih matang dan mula mengenali dan mempelajari lebih banyak perkara baru dan sanggup mengeksplorasi diri kita ke alam yang unik. Di fasa ketiga inilah tempat di mana kita mula memahami segala situasi yang telah dirancang sewaktu di fasa pertama tadi. Segala pembelajaran dari fasa pertama sehingga ketiga dijadikan bekalan bagi menjadikan kita seorang yang berjaya dalam setiap fasa yang telah ditempuhi dalam hidup.
Pengalaman saya sendiri sebagai seorang yang telah mengalami kesemua fasa ini dan pada masa yang sama sedang melalui fasa ketiga amat menakjubkan dan berlainan pengalaman yang saya tempuhi. Sebagai contoh, sewaktu di zaman persekolahan saya tidak mengetahui banyak perkara dan tahap pemikiran kreatif tidak terlalu pintar dan amat sempit dan tidak mampu membukanya dengan lebih luas. Tetapi, setelah memasuki kolej, saya sedar bahawa banyak lagi perkara yang harus saya pelajari dan tempuhi agar saya lebih bersedia menghadapi dunia yang lebih besar dan semakin mencabar ini.
Oleh itu, sekiranya seseorang itu mungkin pada suatu masa dahulu tidak pandai ataupun tergolong dalam golongan cerdik pandai sewaktu di sekolah, tidak semestinya dia tidak boleh berjaya di dalam hidupnya kerana kadangkala disebabkan pengalaman yang lebih luas yang ditempuhi oleh si dia yang tidak berapa pandai berbanding dari si cerdik pandai ini membolehkan dia mempunyai ilmu dunia yang lebih luas dari si cerdik pandai ini. Perkara yang paling penting adalah tidak sama sekali putus asa dan sentiasa berusaha dan sentiasa memaksa diri kita untuk lebih berjaya untuk masa hadapan yang lebih cerah.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Monday, March 9, 2009
Do guys tend to change their view?
This particular question has already in my mind for quite a time but i was not being able to voice it out and now i think i wanna ask this question,well maybe on behalf of other girls also.
All this time, the guys whom i knowed tend to say bad things about a girl that they dont really know and it end up that they will end up with the girl whom they dislike and they had been talking about all this time.
I find it to be very funny and quite entertaining to see they will end up with the person whom they had talked bad things before and finally seeing them together as a couple. Hahaha! I just laugh it out loud and smile everytime I see them.
Because of that im curious,is it that they purposely said things like dat just to deny to their own feelings that they actually like that particular girl,but tried to deny it bcoz all his friend has negative thought or dislike her?? It could be like that and it could be because they will take it as a challenge for them coz as we know guys will like challenges for them to get a girl. They will feel that they had won something if they managed to get the girl which is hard to get.
Well I dunno,it is just my opinion only because just this few days the same thing happened right in front on my eyes. You be the judge and do the judgement on your own.
-Enlightened thinker-
All this time, the guys whom i knowed tend to say bad things about a girl that they dont really know and it end up that they will end up with the girl whom they dislike and they had been talking about all this time.
I find it to be very funny and quite entertaining to see they will end up with the person whom they had talked bad things before and finally seeing them together as a couple. Hahaha! I just laugh it out loud and smile everytime I see them.
Because of that im curious,is it that they purposely said things like dat just to deny to their own feelings that they actually like that particular girl,but tried to deny it bcoz all his friend has negative thought or dislike her?? It could be like that and it could be because they will take it as a challenge for them coz as we know guys will like challenges for them to get a girl. They will feel that they had won something if they managed to get the girl which is hard to get.
Well I dunno,it is just my opinion only because just this few days the same thing happened right in front on my eyes. You be the judge and do the judgement on your own.
-Enlightened thinker-
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Heart Sick
Im very heartsick with everyone around me and really hate them!!my fren in college make me feel worse and they make my mood bcome very bad,worsed than before.i jz dun feel like coming to college next week coz im really really angry with them.i need to go somewhere and relax myself and cool myself down la.wat else i can do to make myself feel calm beside skipping my class????i dunno.
I really wanna runaway to any island beside Penang to relax and calm myself down.I dun wanna loose out my coolness in front of ppl coz dat wud be the most uncool thing i will ever done in my life.
Oh God,im screaming for an island vacation nw!!!!i really wanna take my bag and jz go away!
I really wanna runaway to any island beside Penang to relax and calm myself down.I dun wanna loose out my coolness in front of ppl coz dat wud be the most uncool thing i will ever done in my life.
Oh God,im screaming for an island vacation nw!!!!i really wanna take my bag and jz go away!
Thursday, January 15, 2009
This few days I start thinking about mph again.And I really cant stop thinking about him nw.
Would God actually meet us up again one day? But I wonder,when is it? I've been longing to meet him and really excited if I can meet up with him again. All my love is for him and him alone and there is no other person that can get my love yet,not yet.
But then again I do admit that I got a few crush to a few ppl that I knew but I couldn't tell them about my feelings though. I juz couldn't do that...
Still mph, I will be waiting at the same place every same day hoping that we will meet again one day coz I believe we will meet again someday,soon...
-My Love Is Not A Lie-
Would God actually meet us up again one day? But I wonder,when is it? I've been longing to meet him and really excited if I can meet up with him again. All my love is for him and him alone and there is no other person that can get my love yet,not yet.
But then again I do admit that I got a few crush to a few ppl that I knew but I couldn't tell them about my feelings though. I juz couldn't do that...
Still mph, I will be waiting at the same place every same day hoping that we will meet again one day coz I believe we will meet again someday,soon...
-My Love Is Not A Lie-
Monday, January 5, 2009
Bless me for the Year 2009
I hope this year 2009 will bring some differences for me and changed my life.
I hope God will bless me for the rest of my life and make my 2009 year better.
I hope Angel will pray for me so that i will always be loved by God and forgive me for watever that i have done.
I hope that my family will always be happy.
I hope my friendship with Skylar Amanda Chan and Regina Faith Meh Hui will last forever.
I hope there will be some guidance for me to lead my life.
I hope i will achieve what i want this year.
I hope the war will end.
I hope that people will stop being cruel to each other.
I hope that the economy will be good and balance.
I hope petrol price will remain stable.
I hope lots of ppl will find their happiness this year.
I hope my bad feelings about this year will fade off.
I hope ppl will stop backstabbing.
Lastly,I hope I can meet mph...
-me being sincere-
I hope God will bless me for the rest of my life and make my 2009 year better.
I hope Angel will pray for me so that i will always be loved by God and forgive me for watever that i have done.
I hope that my family will always be happy.
I hope my friendship with Skylar Amanda Chan and Regina Faith Meh Hui will last forever.
I hope there will be some guidance for me to lead my life.
I hope i will achieve what i want this year.
I hope the war will end.
I hope that people will stop being cruel to each other.
I hope that the economy will be good and balance.
I hope petrol price will remain stable.
I hope lots of ppl will find their happiness this year.
I hope my bad feelings about this year will fade off.
I hope ppl will stop backstabbing.
Lastly,I hope I can meet mph...
-me being sincere-
Im a Meanie One!
i just moved to new place and i stayed on the ground floor and in front of my house got one parking slot where 2 cars oso can be slot in there. But the thing is someone who stayed upstairs oledi took over our parking slot. Tho there is no specific name or ownership to that parking slot but i think we deserve it sumore we stayed on the ground floor jz in front of the parking place.
neway,all this time that person who parked at that place will put his old motorbike and parked it at the middle so no one can park it overthere. But today, he didnt do that and i think bcoz he forgot or wat but i saw the place was empty so i decided to do sumthing mean. I snatch the parking slot by putting my car on that slot and proudly laugh once i did that!hahaha!i feel so bad yet i feel satisfied!
neway,all this time that person who parked at that place will put his old motorbike and parked it at the middle so no one can park it overthere. But today, he didnt do that and i think bcoz he forgot or wat but i saw the place was empty so i decided to do sumthing mean. I snatch the parking slot by putting my car on that slot and proudly laugh once i did that!hahaha!i feel so bad yet i feel satisfied!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
A Biatch GF who dump her BF
this is a true story of a bitch who dump his nice bf instead of staying with him forever.she dunno the real reason she broke off actually but she juz wanna broke off.she dun even understand why she did that but she had done it.she hurts dat guy's feelings terribly and she feel so miserable nw for hurting him so bad.what can she do,like wat malay ppl aways said,'nasi sudah jadi bubur'.
its all her mistake and fault and she admit all was her fault for leaving that guy without a good reason.she uses some other excuse to broke off wit him when she in fact confuse whether she still love him or not.she was juz so confuse with all these and the thing that make her made those decision are bcoz of her restlessness of sumthing.she worries tht her bf was having an affair with someone else and she said she dunno how to treat his bf also.she was juz too worried tht she couldnt treat him well and that is the reason why she'd left him.i heard that was the real reason she left him.she still feel sayang to that guy oso but she couldnt express her feelings,she juz couldnt.she dunno what is the reason that she cant tell her true feelings but she juz couldnt do it.by the way,this girl was actually having some breathing probs these few days and she doesnt even told his bf(nw her x-bf) dat she got some respiratory probs.she have to go see doctor for some check up but she didnt do it.the reason is bcoz she know that the doctor will send her again to the cardiologist and go for another heart check up and all the people there will juz stare at her and feel pity for her for having such terrible sickness when she's still young.she almost cried the last time she went to the cardiologist bcoz most of the patient and even the nurses asked her to be strong.nobody knows how she feel at that time,even her parents doesnt even know she went for the check up.she was a brave girl who brave enuf to go alone and finding out she have to go for heart check up.she had this sickness when she was still in kindergarten.
now she juz hope that when she goes to the hospital the result will still be the same as before.she dun wanna die so early bcoz there are lots of other things tht she wanted to explore.she can make it through everything alone and though her x-bf suspected she got someone else she dun mind.she said that as long as she's sincere its enuf.she juz want ppl to be happy in their life.if she is not happy oso she wont mind.she's fine living alone bcz she's use to it...
its all her mistake and fault and she admit all was her fault for leaving that guy without a good reason.she uses some other excuse to broke off wit him when she in fact confuse whether she still love him or not.she was juz so confuse with all these and the thing that make her made those decision are bcoz of her restlessness of sumthing.she worries tht her bf was having an affair with someone else and she said she dunno how to treat his bf also.she was juz too worried tht she couldnt treat him well and that is the reason why she'd left him.i heard that was the real reason she left him.she still feel sayang to that guy oso but she couldnt express her feelings,she juz couldnt.she dunno what is the reason that she cant tell her true feelings but she juz couldnt do it.by the way,this girl was actually having some breathing probs these few days and she doesnt even told his bf(nw her x-bf) dat she got some respiratory probs.she have to go see doctor for some check up but she didnt do it.the reason is bcoz she know that the doctor will send her again to the cardiologist and go for another heart check up and all the people there will juz stare at her and feel pity for her for having such terrible sickness when she's still young.she almost cried the last time she went to the cardiologist bcoz most of the patient and even the nurses asked her to be strong.nobody knows how she feel at that time,even her parents doesnt even know she went for the check up.she was a brave girl who brave enuf to go alone and finding out she have to go for heart check up.she had this sickness when she was still in kindergarten.
now she juz hope that when she goes to the hospital the result will still be the same as before.she dun wanna die so early bcoz there are lots of other things tht she wanted to explore.she can make it through everything alone and though her x-bf suspected she got someone else she dun mind.she said that as long as she's sincere its enuf.she juz want ppl to be happy in their life.if she is not happy oso she wont mind.she's fine living alone bcz she's use to it...
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